Please, allow me, the old good doctor, give you some tips to keep your woman happy and at the same time faithful!Start reading and you will find very valuable guidance on relationships for men.
The first advice on relationships I feel you have to know, and one of the most important is to always be yourself. Many of us men don’t feel we are good enough to catch a stunning, beautiful, sexy woman, so we subconsciously tend to put on a show. What we don’t know is that a confident man is the sexiest beast around. Speaking of such, have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? Don’t you think to yourself what could they possibly be doing that’s working so well for them! The explanation for this is because they display a level of confidence that is way more attractive to women than physical looks.
Next advice I will share with you in our quest to get more out of our relationships is you should do the little things. By this I mean for example offering to take her car in for an oil change, giving her a bag of mints from time to time, surprising her with beautiful roses. Sometimes we tend to think in terms of once in a long while « grand gestures, » when it is the little things that we need to focus on and add up to long relationships.
This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships and another major one: The need to appreciate your woman. One thing you should never do is take her for granted because good honest women don’t come and go and are hard to find like everything else, always let her know that you value her.
Next up is not staring or looking very precisely at other women when you are with her. Women always think that you are comparing them to the woman you’re glancing at. And there’s absolutely no reason to blame them. Just think if you were at a shopping mall and as your woman is talking to you she places her eyes at a young man passing by without even acting as if she wasn’t. Women don’t understand the concept that sometimes beauty catches our eye like a stunning painting or a breathtaking sunset. So if the woman youare unconsciously staring at isn’t noticeably strikingly gorgeous, try to keep the focus on your lady. Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children and have a joyful family. They can’t help it, that’s how evolution designed them and how it has worked for centuries since earth was created. So try to minimize the wondering eyes, especially when she’s around.
Another important part of being in and maintaining a good relationship is always being outgoing and trying to make her laugh. While us, men always list good looks at the top of the things we need in a woman, they mysteriously list a man’s sense of humor as top priority. So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.
The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking common interests. It is awesome if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it is still helpful when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers. If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, horticulture, or puppetry so be it. This not only shows that you are interested sharing things, but that you care about her and she’ll know you are that someone special that doesn’t come and go every day.
A very erroneous thought that some of us tend to have is once we get the girl, it may seem like we don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as looks and grooming goes. And, while as we know how women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt. If this means shaving on weekends, that is the price to pay. It isn’t much if we look at her part of the deal… manicure, pedicure, hair, waxing, eyebrows, clothes. Let’s just think how we would feel if she hadn’t gone to the beauty salon to shave for a couple of months, not something we pleasantly want to imagine. So try to keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men and take care of yourself like if you were still looking for a lady.
In short, do not get sloppy just because you’ve landed her. You can « unland » her just as easily. A very important aspect of a woman is her family and friends; she’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger, more prolonged life, especially after the first few weeks of passion and getting-to- know-each other is over. So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends, not too much otherwise it would be slightly homosexual of your part, but just enough to make her happy, and leave a good image to impress her parents and try getting along with them. A woman always relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices. Make an effort.
As slightly insensitive men that we sometimes tend to be we forget that women are way more sensitive to everything than we are. You should always be considerate of her feelings. Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood and help her get through the unpleasant moment you won’t get on her bad side and most importantly she will be sure that you really care about her.
The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things. Almost always at the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after a while, you will notice these things becoming a routine. If you find that your relationship gets a bit dull or has fallen into a rut, shake things up. For example, if you tediously spend every weekend picnicking at a local park, try other activities like boat rafting, fishing, something that you will both enjoy and that will add spice to the relationship. Try something new, it will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy and enjoyable. So, I’ve given you ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look guys, to be honest with you, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn’t pay attention to what I was doing.