Guys usually day dream about this all day everyday — waltzing through a heavily crowded bar with lots of women, saying hi to almost everybody, getting free drinks and then finally approaching a hot girl and taking her home (or, girls get to approach him). Yeah, he’s pretty smooth hat way. However, a very few guys live that dream while others think it’s pretty impossible for them to get actually get lucky with a girl. Now, before you dive into misery, here are a few tips on how to pick-up girls easily — yes, it’s possible.
- Be nice to everybody. Some guys would think being rude is cool and acting all haughty and arrogant can make a girl swoon — girls want a guy who can show great confident and self-control. Well, you shouldn’t be necessarily the life of the party but know how to have a good time. If you appear positive, poised and ready to mingle, the girls will get intrigued. In the world of picking up chicks, it is vital that you stand out from the rest.
- Never drink binge.Social drinking is fine and a few shots can help you loosen up and bit and be in a flirty mood, it is definitely unforgivable to approach a girl when you’re dead drunk. It will definitely scare the girls away, top it off with your really liquor stinking breath. If you plan to get drunk, do it some place away from the ladies.
- Let her know you notice her.Smile. And make sure she sees it. Go ahead and smile at her. Or better yet, nod your head. Look away just before she can make a move but make sure to steal glances at her constantly — observe if she’s doing the same. If she does, go ahead and say hi. Now that’s what we call making eye contact across the room. It’s pretty exciting and you’re actually initially building sexual tension right there and then.
- Get involved. Now this tip is a little too hard to handle. You must have the balls and a big confidence level to be able to work it off. When she’s talking with a friend, go ahead and « butt-in » with grace. That means, you’re getting yourself involved with their conversation, thus, making it out rightly obvious that you want to get to know her (or them). No pick up lines please or smooth talking tricks. Make sure that the girls are in a friendly sociable mood so as not to make you get a slap or two.
- Go over, say hi and get it over with.Now’s the time for you to show your flirting skills! Go over to that pretty girl, ask her a question and keep her in animated conversation. Let’s hope it’s attraction at first sight so you won’t be doing a lot of work. Be observant. Spot girls who may be checking you out as well and don’t hesitate to approach her.