You know your girlfriends have your back. You have known them all your life and always were able to count on them. When it comes to tactics to get your ex back however, they just may be leading you in the wrong direction.
Getting dumped by the boy you still love is just one of the most difficult things a girl can experience. When it's all said and done, you have one thought on your brain– getting him back. Your girlfriend may have a different take on that and maybe they do not want you to get back together with your ex.
Your soul mates have been there to hear you out. They've given you shoulders to cry on. They've even given out their super secret chocolate reserves with you to help you get through this crisis in your life.
Now, they're offering you the most effective recommendations that they have to give on ways to get him back. Unfortunately, their advice is based on the rules girls play by and they are not going to be all that successful at getting him back. If you really desire to win him back, you're going to need to play the game by his rules– to some extent.
Playing a Girl's Scheme with the Boy's Guidelines
Your number one priority right now is to get him back. You have to do it in a way that does not look like you're trying to get him back.
2) Show the world you've gone on. This includes your girlfriends. Smile. Head out and join the crowd. Improve until you have everyone very much convinced that you really have gone on.
3) Let him know you've got game. At all times that you're trying to show everyone you've moved on, you will need to commit to making yourself over from the inside out. Become the sturdier, more self-determining woman you've always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your coiffure. Learn to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your very own skin. Once you've accomplished all this– then you let him see you coming and watch the fireworks as he absorbs the new you.
Why is this so Powerful?
You're coming up with him with a whole new you and many more enigmas to unravel. It's a curious mystery he's powerless to resist– especially if there were ever genuine feelings on his part. They love you irrespective of whether you take their recommendations or not.